Monday, 14 November 2016

small break

Hello my lovely readers.  I just wanted to let you know I'm going to take a little break from blogging, I might still read blogs, at the minute I'm not as I don't have the heart.  I have been diagnosed with a mental health condition called Borderline Personality Disorder, google it if you're interested.  My husband and I split up 5 weeks ago (not my choice) and I've fallen apart completely.  Life doesn't seem worth living at the moment, but hopefully I'll be back soon enough, I have plenty of stuff saved up to tell you about.

30 comments:

Susan Dougill said...

I am so sorry! Take the time you need and we'll be here if you need us. Please believe me when I say the world wouldn't be as good a place without you!

Heather said...

Wendy, I'm so sorry. I'll be thinking of you. What an awful combination of things to happen xx

Just-Do said...

Oh Wendy, what a terrible time this must be for you. I hope you can find the spirit to fight this, and come back stronger. I wish you well and take it from someone who has been there; the sun will shine again someday.

Bethany said...

Oh!! My heart is aching for you!!!
Don't you dare give up! It IS worth it, even if it doesn't feel that way right now. Take it one day at a time, one MOMENT at a time. I understand removing yourself from social media to tend to yourself, but please reach out if you feel the need to.
My thoughts are with you, and I'm hoping you find strength within yourself right now.
Hugs!!

elizabethdee said...

sending you lots of love, sympathy and admiration of your strength! Hope you start feeling better very soon.

D1-D2 said...

:( Take care of yourself Wendy. We will all be thinking of you and sending you good thoughts.

Ellie Foster said...

Sorry to hear your news - I hope you will have support from friends and family.
Be kind to yourself.
Best wishes
Ellie

Celtic Thistle said...

Oh dear Wendy, you are having a tough time of it. Hope you are in a better place soon.

Rachel said...

My sympathies. I can't imagine what it's like, so I won't say I do. But I am wishing you all the very best.

Starry-eyed stitcher said...

I am so sorry to read this. I really wish you well, on your road to recovery. I look forward to reading your blog again and looking at your projects when you are feeling better. My very best wishes. Irene xx

Sheryl S. said...

Oh Wendy, I am so sorry to hear of this news. Don't despair, hang on in there. I will write privately as soon as I get home.

Oops-Lah said...

Oh no, I'm so sorry to hear about both your health and your husband. You definitely will need time to heal. We'll be waiting when you are ready to come back. Sending lots of good thoughts and much love your way! xx

Fiona said...

take care Wendy...xx
Hugz

Jane Galley said...

I am so very sorry, sending you a cyber hug. You have my email if you ever want to talk

margaret said...

so sorry to read that you are unwell, maybe now having a diagnosis will help as you have been struggling in the past with being down and they can now hopefully treat you with medication. Sorry that your marriage has broken up and coming at a bad time too. I am sure your Mum will be a great support and I will keep you in my prayers, are you able to still go to work I wonder. Hang in there we in blog land are all thinking of you take care

carvingtimefromlife said...

Hopefully you will find the right treatment for your BPD diagnosis. Selfishly on my part, I'll be very sorry if you stop blogging, especially as I only found you a short time ago and was looking forward to regular posts from you, but I understand why you might want a break. I wish you well.

nanacathydotcom said...

So sorry for you. Two bad things at once. But you will be ok. Honest.

Sarah in Stitches said...

Wendy... I don't even know what to say. Huge hugs, my dear! Hoping you'll be back soon!

Jo Darby said...

I just wanted to let you know I will be thinking of you often. I have family members who have suffered too. It's very difficult and heartbreaking, what you are going through. Listen to your counselors. Stay focused on getting back on level ground. You can do it.
Jo
Durham NC USA

Sarah T said...

Sending hugs.

Rhona said...

I'm so sorry to hear this. Hope things get better for you.

Liz E said...

I wish I had some words to say that would make things better. When we reach places of extreme struggle, managing to persist day to day is a victory. Don't give up. Don't loose heart. When things are at their darkest please try to have hope and remember that better days will come. They will!

underatopazsky said...

Huge hugs. Look after yourself, keep yourself safe and cared for and come back when you're ready.

charis Anna's mum said...

So sorry to hear about the difficult time you are going through, looking forward to hearing from you again soon.

pennydog said...

Take care x

Chris of UK City Crafter said...

So sorry to hear of your news, take as much time out as you need and concentrate on getting well. We'll still be here if you decide you want to continue blogging x

Jenny - the lilac cat said...

I was so sorry to hear your news. What a very difficult time this must be. And of course all your energy must be on coping and dealing with everything you are having to face with the support of family and friends. I've always enjoyed your creative projects and I hope in time you can enjoy them too. My best wishes and thoughts are with you.

Joy from Days Filled With Joy said...

I'm so sorry to hear this Wendy, but you take care and look after yourself.. we'll be here when you get back. Hugs and prayers xx

H Gotts said...

So sorry to hear about your troubles, take care of yourself and hope you're back to enjoying your projects, or to be able to use your creative outlet to ease your pain. Sending good thoughts your way.

Daisy Debs said...

Hugs....thinking of you too . Dont give up this Journal.... just do it now and then . This is your happy place ! :)